“The One” is a Destructive Concept

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Over the weekend I had written up a blog that was essentially a 1,000 word rant about how I hate the fact that I have to do the whole dating thing again and I hate the modern dating culture, both Mainstream and Church, even more. The tantrum in blog form rivaled my 2 year old’s greatest outbursts. As amusing as it would be to post it I know I am better than that and my purpose in writing is to move forward with healing and hope, not to whine. So, I decided to shift my focus to a related topic.

I’ve already written once about how I don’t believe in soulmates so I’ll try not to repeat myself, rather, I’d like to dive in to why, not only do I not believe in soulmates or “the one”, but I think the very concept is destructive.

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About Sue Rosenbloom, CT, MA

Thanatologist: Loss, Trauma, Crisis, Death, and Grief Educator - My blog is for educational purposes only. I am not a licensed professional counselor - Bachelor of Arts in Human Studies - Marylhurst University (2007) Certificate in Thanatology - Hood College (2008) Master of Arts in Thanatology - Hood College (2009) Certificate in Thanatology - The-Association for Death Education and Counseling (The highest level of loss and grief education). * Hospice, Alzheimer's and Senior's Advocate * Former first responder for Trauma Intervention Program, Inc. (TIP) * Former Hospice and Bereavement Volunteer for Providence Hospice Bereavement Program * Association for Death Education and Counseling Member * National Alliance for Bereavement of Children * Hood College Thanatology Association * American Group Psychotherapy Association * Hospice, Loss, Grief and Bereavement Researcher
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