SUICIDE: They didn’t mean to do this TO YOU, they did this FOR THEM…

Cathie Gray

When stigmatized by the unexpected loss by Suicide, you can’t find the recipe of how to carry on. First, let me tell you, you are not alone! I have learned a powerful perspective that I would like to share with you!

I found myself being attacked about the manner of death in which I lost my Beautiful firstborn. I was not going to retreat and allow those insensitive ones to label my child or to induce shame. I was even attacked by other grieving ones, during their rage stage, implying i didnt deserve the same sympathy, or they were angry with their loved one and tying to cast their anger onto me. This is what I wrote to them & hundreds have been helped by it. Take A look for yourself. Tell me what you think:


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About Sue Rosenbloom, M.A., C.T.

Thanatologist: Loss and Grief Coach - My blog is for educational purposes only. I am not a licensed professional counselor - Bachelor of Arts in Human Studies - Marylhurst University (2007)- Certificate in Thanatology - Hood College (2008) Master of Arts in Thanatology - Hood College (2009) Certificate in Thanatology - The-Association for Death Education and Counseling (The highest level of loss and grief education). * Hospice, Alzheimers and Senior's Advocate * Former first responder for Trauma Intervention Program, Inc. (TIP) * Hospice and Bereavement Volunteer for Providence Hospice Bereavement Program * Association for Death Education and Counseling Member * National Alliance for Bereavement of Children * Hood College Thanatology Association * American Group Psychotherapy Association * Marylhurst Gerontolgy Association * Oregon Gerontology Association * Hospice, Loss, Grief and Bereavement Researcher * Creative Writer
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