Monthly Archives: January 2019

Feedback Loops and Grief – thelifeididntchoose


I wasn’t there when Dominic left the road but I’ve imagined it in detail hundreds of times since that night nearly five years ago. I can’t help it. I wonder what he thought, what … Source: Feedback Loops and Grief … Continue reading

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I Am “Moving On” After The Death Of My Child — And I Am Taking Her With Me – An Unexpected Family Outing


I’m not sure who was the first to say it, but after my daughter, Dorothy, died there were many who assured me that I would move on.  They phrased it like a promise — a reassurance … Source: I Am … Continue reading

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Stigmatized Loss – Compassionate Friends


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Stopping the Stigma: My Mom Died and I WILL Talk About It — Christie Lynn


We live in a society that is so terrified to talk about death. For something that is happening every day, all around us, people just don’t know how to communicate about this subject. Source: Stopping the Stigma: My Mom Died … Continue reading

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Mom says security camera filmed ghost of her son | | kptv.com


Jennifer Hodge was watching television with her daughter when an alert popped up on her phone saying “Your Entryway camera saw someone.” The photo taken by the camera showed a Source: Mom says security camera filmed ghost of her son … Continue reading

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Alfred Newman, one of the last remaining Navajo Code Talkers, dies at 94 | | kptv.com


(CNN) — One of the last remaining members of the Navajo Code Talkers, who used their difficult-to-learn language to form an indecipherable code that helped the Allies win World War Source: Alfred Newman, one of the last remaining Navajo Code … Continue reading

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When Help Doesn’t Look Like I Thought it Should (or Hoped it Would) – thelifeididntchoose


I suspect I’m not alone in growing up with stories of a handsome prince coming to the rescue on his white charger. If you hear the tales often enough they burn an image in your mind of exactl… Source: When … Continue reading

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The Choices We Make for Others at the End of Life by Sallie Tisdale — YES! Magazine


A palliative care nurse explains what to expect in the last days and hours. Source: The Choices We Make for Others at the End of Life by Sallie Tisdale — YES! Magazine

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Griefwords Library – Horan & McConaty


Griefwords Library By Dr. Alan Wolfelt, Ph.D. Source: Griefwords Library – Horan & McConaty

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We cannot fix people’s grief, only sit with them, in their darkness | Giles Fraser: Loose canon | Opinion | The Guardian


Loose canon: Compassion literally means to suffer alongside. The greatest gift we can give the bereaved, with the loneliness that accompanies loss, is to not run away Source: We cannot fix people’s grief, only sit with them, in their darkness … Continue reading

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